Αναμνήσεις

Αναμνήσεις..η ζωή που περνάει μπροστά στα μάτια μας όποτε το θελήσει κάποιος.Μια ταινία την οποία εμείς οι ίδιοι γυρίζουμε,και την οποία μπορούμε να χρησιμοποιήσουμε όπως νομίζουμε..εμείς την δημιουργούμε και εμείς μπορούμε να την καταστρέψουμε.Το θέμα είναι πως μπορούμε την διαχειριστούμε,και ακόμα περισσότερο,τι κρύβεται πίσω από όλο το φάσμα μίας ανάμνησης;

Συναισθήματα κυρίως,κάθε είδους,θυμός,λύπη,αγάπη,πόνος,κ.τ.λ. Είναι οι στιγμές τις οποίες ζήσαμε έντονα στο παρελθόν,και βάλαμε μέσα τους όλο μας το "είναι" με διάφορους τρόπους,ανάλογα την περίσταση.

Σε άλλες περιπτώσεις δεν πρόκειται απλά για μία έκρηξη συναισθημάτων,κάποιες φορές υπάρχει ένας κυνικός ορθολογισμός,μια πεζή-λογική αντιμετώπιση ενός ζητήματος στο οποίο δεν χωράνε συναισθηματισμοί,θυμίζοντας αρκετά μια στυγνή επαγγελματική τακτική,χωρίς όμως να υπάρχει η κάλυψη του επαγγελματισμού.Αντίθετα καταλήγει συχνά ως μία ωμή στάση απέναντι στη ζωή..

Ορθολογισμός και κοινή λογική απέναντι στα συναισθήματα,δύο έννοιες πλήρως αντίθετες,οι οποίες πρέπει να μπορέσουν να συνυπάρξουν σε σωστές αναλογίες μέσα στις ψυχές και στα μυαλά των ανθρώπων.Πιο δύσκολο από ότι ακούγεται..

Oblivion

The human mind is responsible for all of our actions , whether they are active or passive.But if we take a closer look we will see that all our decisions,thoughts and actions are triggered by our experience and memories. For example ,the way we deal with something depends on how we used to deal with it ,and what experience and maturity someone has achieved.Now...What if...Hypothetically speaking...All was blank , a void , everything blown away by the wind in just a moment?Then you will have reached the state of complete Oblivion.Then all will be gone. All the things you love,you hate,the things that make you smile , which move you , which scare you , which make your adrenaline shoot up , which make you feel lonely ... All forgotten . You'll have forgotten how it is to love , to share and to laugh ... You'll be someone else .

Because,let's face it , it's due to our experience and memories what kind of human beings will end up being. This will be like a new start , which will make you insane . Why you ask ? the answer is , because you have lived a life building , sacrifising to make your own lifestyle , and suddenly you will not remember doing anything of these things? will be like filling in the shoes of someone else . Some may think this is positive , forgetting ... be like "yeah , let's perish all those bad memories", but don't these make us human ? make out our fragility ? our strength ?
All in all , i believe Oblivion is a horrible state , a sickness and not a solution . Also keep in mind that once you have forgotten everyone , soon enough they will forget you too.
*last tip , don't perish bad memories , live with them , 'cause "No Pain , No Gain" ;) *


Erryk

Emotions...

Emotions...so many different ones...each of them is unique.Each emotion has its own prestige.None of them is bad nor good.They all express different situations or maybe different emotions express the same situation no matter how opposite these emotions seem.Love,Happiness,Hate,Anger,Sadness are some of the most common ones...Of course there are other emotions...

Love: Nothing seems better than love.Everyone tries to reach it,searching for it but forgetting its true meaning.What does Love mean to you?Only when you truly know what it means to you should you search for it and fight for it.Love is a double-edged knife though.The more you experience it the more it'll hurt in the end.Most (including me) would say it's worth the sacrifice although others disagree.Be careful with Love.It can make you fly but can also make you fall to the ground.
Happiness:One of the emotions that everyone should try to achieve.Happiness is the key to well-being.When I say happiness though I mean real happiness.Be with people you're happy with, do things you like and you have it.Only you can bring happiness to your life with your choices.
Hate: Most would say that it's the opposite of Love.Well Hate is a completely different and unique emotion (like all of them) and can coexist with other emotions, even Love which is thought as its opposite.The reason this emotion is created varies depending on the situation and the personality of each person.Hate does not necessarily mean wanting the person that is hated to experience bad situations.Again, the Hate differs from person to person...
Anger: A feeling that also differs from person to person.Some people get angry easier or more difficult and with a different result (long-lasting "destructive" Anger, temporary mild Anger).Anger is not a bad emotion.Especially if the reason due to which is caused is right it helps getting out of a tough situation.
Sadness: Sadness is the lack of real Happiness.Sadness is usually achieved by making the wrong choices or not taking any choices at all.Then some else takes them for you.Rarely does "fate" decide for you and lead you to Sadness...

The other numerous emotions are composed by the above major emotions.The key factor to emotions is our self.We make our personallity,our mood,our emotions!We are the choices we make...

G.V.

Getting 11 out of 10..A way of thinking..

 How many times have you concentrated on something with every sort of power you have,so that you can take the best out of it,the ultimate?But do you really what are you really aiming to get?Do you just got any idea how much you can really get?What is the limit your effort can reach?
Unfortunately,I cannot give an answer not even to one of these questions,the answers are buried deep into each one's heart...Each one of us know what he is aiming for,what he can do,his dreams,his desires..however,when it comes to expressing what we have understood from this,there is a blackout..we cannot say what we think..but we have still got the image in our mind,the image of what we want to say,but we cannot say..Expressing your thoughts...that is what we lack,mostly at least,cause there are other obstacles in this way,which are not yet ready neither to confront,nor to understand.

I want to speak more about the aim,our targets.Do we always really know what we want to achieve?Even when we say that we are 100% sure about our purposes and the things that we seek,there is a part of ourself which is doubtful and poses always questions,which underestimate the importance that we are trying to give to our desires..It's not very serious,sometimes it's just a question caused from insecurity and anxiety,which may even strengthen our choice,make it seem more certain,however it is not always like,sometimes it hurts to have something like a second person in your head,expressing a totally different view from your own,doubting your every movement...It could prove useful..but in the other hand it can also become start of self-destruction..

There is only one way to defend against this..to know what you want...to let only one voice be heard in your head...cause there is no democracy in this world,It's only about the right of the strongest...and to be the strongest you must know what to aim and how..and I know what  my aim is...instead of other people...I only aim to get 11 out of 10...only then I can feel satisfied with myself..

  ...and I know how to get it...


J.J.

Running Away is no solution...

So many things that you cannot stand around you.They may seem able to take you down,but you will never know till you face them...You must prove to yourself whether you are the weak one or if you got the courage and the strength to fight for what you are,what you believe,and what you want!

Many would choose the "easiest" solution,to run away..from everything.A choice which would just give them a plastic feeling of security and happiness..believing that they had escaped from everything that made them sad,that they will be able to erase everything..pity for them,this cannot be done..even if you stop thinking about the things that happen they will continue happening.People should stop fleeing,a new start cannot be made while an old one is still active...It only begins from the ashes of your past,from what you've left behind...but only when you have really left everything behind...otherwise you will find yourself into a dead-end situation and you will be unable to do anything...you will just be an observer of your own life,a life that you will be unable to command anymore,where others would be your masters...

I hope that I have made already clear to everybody that my advice to you is to manage properly your personal/professional matters,in a way that you won't mix up two or (even worse) more together.It's up to you,it is your to prove capable of getting what you deserve...to FIGHT!


*Even if you are losing don't run for your life..just transfer the battle into your own territory ;)*



J.J.

Ντόμινο...

Το μόνο πράγμα που κατάλαβα τον τελευταίο καιρό είναι πως όλα στην ζωή είναι ένα ντόμινο...
Ο ένας εξαρτάται από τον άλλο...έτσι κάπως δεν νομίζουμε πως είναι το ντόμινο?Πως αρκεί ένα κομμάτι να πέσει για να πέσουν και όλα τα υπόλοιπα μαζί με αυτό?
Έτσι είναι όμως και η ζωή?Δεν νομίζω,μπορεί και στη ζωή όλοι να είμαστε κομμάτια ενός παιχνιδιού-ντόμινο στην προκειμένη περίπτωση-,αλλά υπάρχουν σημαντικές διαφορές...

Εδώ τα κομμάτια  ποτέ δεν είναι ίδια!κάποια είναι μεγαλύτερα από τα άλλα...δυνατότερα και σταθερότερα.,που μπορούν να αντέξουν πολλά χτυπήματα,και άλλα που δεν μπορουν να αντέξουν περισσότερα από ένα.

Επίσης στη ζωή δεν υπάρχει αυτό που θα λέγαμε μια "αλυσίδα" συνεχόμενων παιχτών-ντόμινο τα οποία μπορούν να χτυπήσουν το ένα το άλλο...ναι,μπορεί να υπάρχουν ντόμινο που μπορούν να χτυπήσουν και να ρίξουν οποιοδήποτε άλλο,αλλά υπάρχουν και κάποια τα οποία δεν μπορούν να πλησιάσουν παρά  μια ορισμένη ομάδα ντόμινο τα οποία βρίσκονται -όχι τυχαία- κοντά τους...

Τέλος,το πιο σημαντικό στο ντόμινο,είναι να πάρεις τη σωστή θέση,να επιλέξεις σωστά!Επέλεξε εσύ τι θα είσαι...και κάντο γρήγορα,γιατί αν αργήσεις τότε κάποιος άλλος μπορεί να επιλέξει για σένα...ή να πάρει αυτό που στο τέλος  θα ήθελες εσύ...για αυτό διάλεξε γρήγορα,και πάντα σωστά...πάρε τη θέση στην οποία όχι μόνο θα μπορείς να ζήσεις ωραία,αλλά και αυτή που δεν θα κινδυνεύεις από τα άλλα ντόμινο, χωρίς ποτέ να ρίξεις εσύ κάποιο από αυτά...Γιατί πολύ απλά σε αυτό το παιχνίδι είσαι ότι κάνεις...

J.J.


ας βάλω και ένα τραγούδι χωρίς κάποιο μήνυμα,απλά για να υπάρχει...=)

Hope dies last ....(What can I do to make you see?...)

I've been thinking about it the last few weeks...there has passed so much time from the moment we met each other...I guess none of us could have ever guessed how things would have come to this point...there have been times when the idea of fleeing passed through my mind but I said NO!I ain't gonna give up now...I always feel that nothing is over, even though everything seems to be buried to the ground, I still think that everything is somewhere within my two hands and I'm just unable to control  properly the situation...

...I would like to be more precise but it would be better if  I kept the action out of my little non-happy end story(at least till now...)so I will go on in the same track...a track which seems so beaten...sometimes I don't even recognize myself!I feel lost...Why everything seems so simple to everybody except from me?Feels like I'm seeing everything through broken glasses, which don't give me the opportunity to see clear and use my common sense to get the best out of it...so many questions...and so many different answers...It feels like I'm just another marionette in this puppet show...I want to give the image to my own self that I know what to do...that I know things that the others don't...the problem is that I can't even convince myself...and if you can't do that you can't do anything...

The more you think of it...the deeper your wound becomes...have you ever considered what makes somebody a parasite?...Mostly the fact that unless other people were living he wouldn't be either...depending always on somebody else...to do the dirty job for you...live for you...

So I ended up where I started...What I can do to make you see?I've tried so much all these time...by all means necessary...to achieve what?I've only made things worse and now I can only hope for something to change...but don't underestimate this...hope dies last...when everything is already dead and you've nothing left to ask from life...

All in all, I need to see a spark of light in this plain of total darkness...just so that I won't let go...
and I won't...
J.J.